A Look At Discretion

When I am asked, when are you going to get married, my response tends to follow something along the line of, "I don't know. Marriage isn't something I think actively about." One thing I never add, and I've realised no one bothers to ask, is why I don't think actively about marriage. I now occupy... Continue Reading →

You Are Homophobic, Admit It.

The phenomenon of homophobia touches every aspect of a gay man’s life. Work, romance, religion, politics, the feelings of acceptance and belonging. From the casual remark of the unexposed bigot who utters “how man go dey fuck man” to the extreme case of gay men being thrown off roof tops to their deaths, homophobia manifests... Continue Reading →

Understand What it Means to be Discreet

Because it is possible for a mother to disown her offspring, from having learned of his/her homosexual tendencies, a phenomenon exists of homosexuals who keep their homosexuality to themselves (and sometimes to a select few). The style for this mode of operation comes served in one word: Discreet. To be discreet, in gay lingua, is... Continue Reading →

How To Be A Power Bottom

You might be one who has never taken anything up your ass, or it might be that you are a certified veteran in the art of collecting preek. Either way, let’s discuss the activity which when done with particular skill earns you the title: Power Bottom.  In case you are unaware, the word Bottom is... Continue Reading →

Life Happens

Most of us start off with the best intentions: We walk up to a stranger because we feel drawn to present them with love. We talk to potential business partners in efforts to contribute our own quota to a working world. We begin a medium of expression, a blog for example, because we want to... Continue Reading →


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